5 Things You Must Do if Your Spouse is Hooked on Porn

A husband’s compulsive pornography use is rarely disclosed voluntarily. Most men addicted to pornography experience deep shame and hide their choices, but despite well-crafted, guilt-ridden lies that mask their behavior, the truth emerges. Regardless how the wife finds out about the pornography addiction, the discovery is devastating for everyone involved. After this discovery, wives often... Read more »

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3 Messages You Send Your Wife When You Say “Every Guy Watches Porn”

“I don’t know what you are so upset about. Every guy watches porn. It’s no big deal so why don’t you just leave it alone.” I am blown away by the number of men I meet in my counseling practice who have uttered those words to their wives to justify their pornography addiction. In fact,... Read more »

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Is Looking At Porn The Same Thing As Cheating?

“I don’t understand,” Tim said to his wife as they sat across from me during their first counseling session. “I didn’t sleep with anyone. I was watching porn. Since when is that considered adultery?” He shot me a look seeking my support in confirming his belief that Cheryl was overreacting to his behavior. Unfortunately for... Read more »

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3 Ways to Love Your Spouse through Recovery

Your spouse confessed to watching porn. Now what? I know my first reaction was a ball of feelings including anger, frustration, hurt, and insecurity. I wanted to kick my husband out and not deal with any of it. Undoubtedly, your instincts are the same. But if your spouse is choosing recovery, then choose to go... Read more »

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