How Can I Manage My Addiction?

Hey, it’s Craig again. The question we’re asking this week is, “How can I manage my addiction to porn?” You know, I don’t write these questions, and I’d definitely want to reword this one. The idea of managing an addiction just doesn’t make sense to me.  You can’t “manage” an addiction. It’s unmanageable. One of the... Read more »

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Will Marriage Solve My Porn Use?

Hey, it’s Craig here. The question this week, “Will marriage solve my porn problem?” Nope.  I’ve been doing this a long time, and that’s one thing I know for sure. A lot of single people think, “I struggle with porn because I can’t have sex.” If you’ve been trying to stay a virgin before you’re... Read more »

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Isn’t Porn Use Just a Bad Habit that He Can Stop Doing if He Wanted?

At x3church, we have a panic button that folks can press when they’re panicking and need answers. People reach out at all hours of the night with a whole range of questions. Sometimes, the questions keep me up at night. Questions that I can hardly believe. But most of the time, they are questions we... Read more »

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How Do I Get Over the Pain & Resentment Caused by Divorce?

Hey, it’s Craig (obviously). This week, we’re talking about divorce. A glaring, recurring question often asked of us is, “Just how do I get through the pain and the trauma of my divorce or the resentment caused from the divorce?” How do I move on from that? Personally, I can’t put myself in your shoes... Read more »

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My Wife Is So Angry About My Porn Use, What Can I Do?

Hey guys, Craig again. This month we’re talking about resentment, so – speaking of – here’s a question I often receive: “My wife is so angry about my porn use, what can I do?” If you’re reading that question and coming to the realization that, “Oh no! That’s me…!” – you’re in the right place. And –... Read more »

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Can Masturbation Help My Marriage?

  About This Episode Download Podcast Episode   Welcome back to another episode of the Panic Button Podcast. This week, I’ve got another question about masturbation. So today’s question is: “Can masturbation help my marriage?” We’re taking the whole month to talk about masturbation because everywhere I go, people want to justify what they want... Read more »

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Can I Masturbate to Photos of My Wife?

  About This Episode Download Podcast Episode   Welcome back to another episode of the Panic Button Podcast. This week, I’ve got another question about masturbation. The email asks:  “What’s your take on masturbation if I do think of my wife?” It’s a good question, honestly. I travel a lot, I’m away from my wife for... Read more »

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My Husband Won’t Stop Looking at Porn

  About This Episode Download Podcast Episode   So this question came in from a wife: “My husband said he would never look at porn again. Why does he continue? I don’t understand why he won’t take ownership for his life, his issues, his shit, and clean up his mess.” So they’re kind of two... Read more »

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What Is Behind My Compulsive Behavior?

 About This Episode In today’s Whiteboard Session, Steven Luff, co-author of Pure Eyes: a Man’s Guide to Sexual Integrity and creator of the X3Pure 30-Days to Purity on-line recovery program, answers a question we get a lot: what’s behind my compulsive behavior and how do I stop it? Steve uses the whiteboard to share a new and... Read more »

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2 Questions to Ask Yourself If You Want Your Marriage to Thrive

When a couple gets married, they know a lot about one another. But their relationship winds up being built as much upon their lack of knowledge about one another as it is upon that existing knowledge. Couples walk into every marriage with a set of assumptions and expectations about their spouse that will inevitably bring... Read more »

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