I turned 40 years old last year, right before Christmas. That means I will turn 41 this year, right after Christmas. Just kidding. It’s always a few days before Christmas. I kind of like being 40. Not sure what 41 will bring, but this year seemed to fly by. We launched My Pilgrimage in 2016,... Read more »
“How will I know when I will be able to trust him again?” It is one of the spouse’s most commonly-asked questions during a couples’ first counseling session after discovering sexual addiction! It’s a great question, because at the core of the couples’ issues is the broken bond of trust. Sex-addicted partners: – Violate their... Read more »
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At the end of 2015, we sent out a newsletter that mentioned we were going to create the best podcast possible on the topic of marriage. We didn’t want just another talking head host interviewing people around the up’s and down’s of marriage. We wanted something that pulled people in that people could relate with,... Read more »
Most of us are afraid of people getting even a glimpse of who we are. Throw an addiction into the mix and we end up hiding every part of ourselves from the world. I get it. When everyone else is seemingly happy and coping with life without any issues (btw – they’re not), we don’t... Read more »
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[Note: On Fridays we post new rants from one of our writers, edited only for typos and spelling.This new series is not for those easily offended or for those who only like to play nice. So read this before you start posting your comments.] Some Christians hate swearing. I am not one of them. I love a... Read more »
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Last month I talked a lot about My Pilgrimage, a new approach to breaking free from pornography for men. The response was overwhelming. However, while I was stoked to see so many men enter a new and exciting time in their life beginning a new journey to freedom from pornography … it was also a... Read more »
Ah, Instagram. The home of our beloved #foodporn and #wordporn. These tags are casual and edgy ways to appreciate glorious, towering burgers and macaron-embellished cakes, or a short poem that captures our hearts. They’re also really destructive uses of language. And we need to stop. Look, I’m no stranger to ‘rule 34’ (If it exists,... Read more »
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If you have ever been in a marriage where there has been infidelity present you probably have asked yourself, “Should I stick around or not?” It’s a fair question. It’s also a difficult one. Craig Gross wrote about this question in his post “Should I stay or should I go?” Check it out. That, unfortunately,... Read more »
The marital sex life catches a bad rap. So many people think that marital sex must be boring because it is with the same person for the rest of your life. I think that the monogamy is what KEEPS IT FROM being boring. Think about it – you ARE with the same person over and... Read more »
I know this is a blog post but if I could turn it into a handwritten note I would. I want to thank you. Whether or not you took this year’s opportunity to join My Pilgrimage, if you’re still bearing with me after going through the last month and a half with us gearing up for... Read more »